Category Archives: sex

OVO blog, January 2008

Original writing by Trevor Blake…

  • Animal Sacrifice, Texas Style: “It appears that animal sacrifice is acceptable in Texas, but only if it is the correct religion.”
  • Coffee and Orange: “Through a long series of strange and wonderful turns of fate, I live in Portland Oregon USA yet I can buy coffee and oranges any time of the year.”
  • Suffrage: “In the United States, is there a relation between when a group of people gains suffrage and the percentage of that group that is registered to vote?”

… as well as references to…

  • Cinnamon Stillwell: Honor killings
  • Sara Corbett: A Cutting Tradition
  • Richard Owen: Pope calls for continuous prayer to rid priesthood of paedophilia
  • AP and Susan Harding: Mayor’s racy photos become the talk of the town
  • Christine Clarridge: Phony psychic sentenced for bilking woman of savings
  • Shawn F. Peters: Abusing Children in the Name of God
  • Jo-Ann Goodwin and David Jones: The unspeakable practice of female circumcision that’s destroying young women’s lives in Britain
  • Maged Thabet Al-Kholidy: There must be violence against women

… see also twenty-one years worth of zines (going back to the days of photocopies and post office boxes), original art and more.

Kojo Asiedu: LGBT Affairs office considers name change

The University’s Office of Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender Affairs plans to pick a new name by the end of the semester in an effort to be more inclusive. Gabe Javier, an LGBT affairs assistant, said the current name doesn’t represent allies – members who suport the group regardless of whether they fit into any of the categories mentioned in the title. “Part of it is that the letters are more exclusive than inclusive,” Javier said. “There are lots of people who are part of the LGBT community that may not identify as a lesbian, bisexual or gay person.”

[Article continues at link.]

Ten Politically Incorrect [sic] Truths [sic] about Human Nature [sic]

“Politically incorrect”? Has any other soundbite become quite so tedious as this phrase?

Found this doozy of an article via Klintron’s Technoccult. It well represents the stupid uses to which the air of science is put in the service of ideology. It is not science but a mix of speculation on and interpretation of human and animal behavioral science, biology and cultural trends. I’m not against speculation, but this is being passed off as scientific “truth,” which it ain’t.

Many of the speculations in this article are without clear source.

1. Men like blond bombshells (and women want to look like them)

Evolutionary psychology is emphatically not science. It is a genre of speculation based on a mix of other peoples’ science and observation of cultural trends. EPs, like the sociobiologists before them, are notorious for rationalizing status quo culture as being rooted in biology. They are not researchers but armchair theorists (just like me). Thus when Frank Marlowe contends something, he is not dispelling a “mystery,” just giving his opinion.

Women may have been dying their hair blonde for millennia, but they’ve been dying it other colors for the same period of time.

Full disclosure: I find some young blonde women with small waists and large breasts to be attractive. But “Men also have a universal preference for women with a low waist-to-hip ratio”? [Emphasis mine.] I’ll open this up to the readers: Should I even bother to provide evidence that this isn’t the case?

2. Humans are naturally polygamous

I’m reading Born Cannibal right now. James Miles points out that there’s no known gene for monogamy. Or for polygamy. Or heterosexuality or homosexuality or sexual preference at all.

Sexuality is biologically open-ended. What allowed reproduction to work for millions of years is that creatures–including, historically, humans–have a lot of sex. Taboos are cultural, not biological.

In fact, there are very few if any known “behavior genes.” Most of the discoveries of genetic underpinnings to certain behaviors–gambling, homosexuality, alcoholism, criminality, religiosity–have been announced to much fanfare in the media, which then ignores subsequent contradictory science. In fact a few of these genes–like the so-called “God gene,” which is supposed to predispose people to having religious experiences and therefore believing in (the Christian) god–were announced before any science was done at all.

But back to the article at hand: “Inequality tends to increase as society advances in complexity from hunter-gatherer to advanced agrarian societies. Industrialization tends to decrease the level of inequality.”

Wow. What are they smoking? We are currently living through the largest wealth disparity in the history of mankind. The biggest issue with this is that industrialization does not occur in a vacuum. The biggest disparities happen at the borders of industrial society, precisely where industry takes resources away from nonindustrialized regions and the populations they have traditionally supported. It may be true that there is a relative lack of disparity within industrial civilization compared other types of societies (though I’m not even convinced of that). But this relative lack of disparity within industrialized society is directly dependent on deepening the disparities between industrialized nations and the rest of the world.

3. Most women benefit from polygyny, while most men benefit from monogamy

I can never tell if the largely male population of Evolutionary Psychologists are trying to invent and rationalize some class-based stratification of sexuality because they have a little extra money and need come up with an excuse to get with multiple partners or because they are trying to come up with an excuse for why they can’t get a date at all.

I suspect it’s the latter. So here’s my advice, you armchair theorists of the world. Lighten up with all the “women act this way, men act that way” talk and get out there and talk to people you actually want to have sex with as though they were people and not aggregate collections of statistically observable behaviors interpreted through the lens of your personal bias. It’s not sexy.

BTW, 100 years ago, similar genetic behavior theorists were trying to convince the populace at large that polygamy was a sign of the inferiority of the poor (they’re having all the sex, which we know because they make so many babies) and trying to get them sterilized because of it.

4. Most suicide bombers are Muslim

I’m not sure what this point has to do with “human nature.” Period. Is religious affiliation genetically coded? No.

As to the claim that most suicide bombers are Muslim: Christianity has a long history of martyrdom, but they got most of their dramatic suicides in before the invention of explosives.

“Father of sociology” Emile Durkheim claimed that “altruistic suicide”–suicide for a cause–was observable in a broad array of societies.

5. Having sons reduces the likelihood of divorce

No comment. Don’t care.

6. Beautiful people have more daughters

Ditto. Actually, I slept through the rest of these until…

10. Men sexually harass women because they are not sexist

Look, if ever there was a phrase that was designed to bait the political opposition, it is “political incorrectness.” It serves as a umbrella term meant to signal that the author is setting out to offend people, then act as though he is surprised when people get offended. Then he points the finger at them, saying, “You’re too easily offended.” Some people are too easily offended; that doesn’t make these guys any less asinine. It is always an indication that the author is trying to start some very public drama. Which is probably why the authors saved their best effort for last.

Sexual harassment isn’t sexist: I think what’s going on in this notion is that the authors are simply redefining “sexism” just enough to not include sexual harassment. Likewise, sort of, with the word “discrimination”:

Abuse, intimidation, and degradation are all part of men’s repertoire of tactics employed in competitive situations. In other words, men are not treating women differently from men—the definition of discrimination, under which sexual harassment legally falls—but the opposite: Men harass women precisely because they are not discriminating between men and women.

Your new breed of conservative likes to endlessly play these sorts of bullshit word games to rationalize something or other–usually their snoringly predictable “political incorrectness.”

So let me break it down for them. The legal definition of discrimination doesn’t have any bearing on situations where there is no victim. None. Just because I say hello one person I know doesn’t mean I’m legally obligated to say to everyone that I encounter. If I was a doctor, would I be legally obligated to treat every patient the same way regardless of their symptoms? Under the authors’ redefinition of “discrimination,” if one of these boys-will-be-boys boys had sex with one of their female coworkers, wouldn’t they likewise be legally obligated to have sex with all the rest of their coworkers, male and female alike?* It sounds ridiculous because it’s a distortion not only of discrimination law but of the intent of discrimination law, which is to give people redress when they are being treated in ways that are unwelcome on the one hand and not being recognized for the fruits of their labor on the other.

* Which, come to think of it, in a consenting situation might actually relieve some of the tensions of workplace competition and promote solidarity.** But these guys aren’t talking about consenting situations. They’re trying to come up with a science-y sounding excuse to exceed consent.

** Workers of the world unite!

Andy Soltis: Army Chaplain’s ‘Sex Slave’

A brazen upstate Army chaplain made a British woman his sex toy to “spice” up his boring marriage and threatened to kill her when she wanted to break away, officials said yesterday.

Capt. John Lau, 50, told a military court he took Amanda Tyler into his Fort Drum home, turned her into his “second wife,” “married” her in a mock Niagara Falls service, and took her to live with his real wife and family.

But Tyler, 34, described the ordained Southern Baptist minister as a sexual sadist who controlled and terrified her.

[Article continues at link. Emphasis added. Religion is the sole and sure source of moral behavior, right?]

Divorced couple battling over son’s circumcision

A divorced couple have gone to court to determine whether their son is to be circumcised following his father’s conversion to Judaism. The former Medford [Oregon] man wants his 12-year-old son to undergo the minor surgical procedure, but the boy’s mother opposes it. So far, Oregon courts have squarely sided with the father, who has custody.

[Article continues at link. I note that the father is faithful enough to want to mutilate his son's penis but when it comes to divorce, eh, that was just a wee bit inconvenient. Religion hardens hearts and softens minds. And don't forget our previous posts on super-magic-spell genital mutilation of the rabbi-biting-baby-penis variety.]

Legislating Against Families

Diane Carman: Anti-gay rhetoric drowns out kids’ needs. Sen. Schultheis of Colorado Springs and Sen. Renfroe of Greeley were among the 15 Republicans who voted against a bill that would allow same-sex partners to adopt each other’s children. For them, granting children adopted by same-sex parents the same health care, pension, Social Security, workers’ compensation and child-support benefits as those given to children adopted by heterosexual couples was considered a threat to something, although it was never clear exactly what.

Ryan Lee: Georgia judge halts lesbian adoption. Days away from her seventh birthday, a little girl named Emma Rose is currently trapped in Georgia’s foster care system, unable to reunite with the woman who has been her mother for almost a year — all because the mother is a lesbian. The prospective adoptive mother, Elizabeth Hadaway, was also sentenced to 10 days in jail earlier this month by a Wilkinson County Superior Court judge who refused to grant the adoption in part because “the child will have a long-term exposure to the homosexual parent’s lifestyle.”

[Articles continue at links. Would I be wrong if I guessed these politicians were motivated by an invisible monster that lives in the sky?]

Ben Evans: Gingrich Had Affair During Clinton Probe

Former House Speaker Newt Gingrich acknowledged he was having an extramarital affair even as he led the charge against President Clinton over the Monica Lewinsky affair, he acknowledged in an interview with a conservative Christian group.

[Christianity is clearly the source of morals and moral behavior.]

Larry McShane: Dominatrix is arrested, home to get "cleansing"

A dominatrix was arrested on prostitution charges at a suburban estate that she leased from the rabbinical school next door, and school officials faced the unusual prospect of having to cleanse the building once the whips and chains are gone.

“Once everything is out, there has to be a spiritual cleansing,” said Rabbi Samuel of the Orthodox Khal Adas Kashau yeshiva. “We won’t go close to that place until they move out. No, no, no — heaven forbid.”

CBC: Exotic dancers’ ‘stigma’ too much for charity

The Breast Cancer Society of Canada has rejected the offer of thousands of dollars from a fundraising group of exotic dancers in Vancouver. Exotic Dancers for Cancer holds an annual charity event in memory of a former dancer who lost her life to the disease.

[Article continues at link.]

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